God can speak to us in so many ways. That alone is impressive. It is even more impressive that God speaks to us in ways that hone in with our personalities. Lately gone has been speaking to me through means of my intellect more so than through experiences. A perfect example of this is how much I feel I've learned recently about relationships and the actions God calls me to in those regards, and I'm not even in a relationship.
Over the course of the past several weeks I have had great Godly conversations with several people about their relationships, models of Godly relationships, or what Scripture says about the subject. These conversations have been ones that truly speak to me despite that fact that I cannot fully relate to every aspect of them because of my standing in the world of "relationships". In addition to that, I've had one particular old friend that has been posting up a storm on facebook about her single friends needing to contact her to find a mate. While it's been comical at times, she has also taken to blogging about the topic and how she sees many of the struggles and factors that come into play in the dating world. It is a great read and a source that I think highly of-she's been married for a few years now and has 3 kids with her wonderful husband.
Then, a BCM director friend posted a link to a church's site where they have the audio from a sermon series about relationships and marriage. It's good stuff.
Bouncing off of that, I read through 1 Timothy 6:11-12 and was very encouraged and challenged to prepare myself to step up more as a man. And when I say "prepare myself to step up more as a man" I mean in every aspect of life: relationships, my witness and testimony of Christ's continual work in my life, ministry, finances, and thought. God does not call me, as a man, to an easy and sidelined existence. The creator of the universe made me in such a way that I would take hold of every opportunity before me to bring glory to His name in a mighty way. That goes for how I pursue and treat a women to how I make the most of every opportunity to serve those around me as Christ served.
I also think about how fortunate I have been in my life to be surrounded by great men of God that have given a great example of how to lead, serve, and minister without sacrificing manhood in any way. I look at men like my hometown pastor Johnny Hutchison, my college roommate and bff Ben Neiser, and my buddy Jace Tubbs who have all modeled how to be a man in service to everyone around them, especially their wives. I hope to be able to live a servant manhood as they have in all aspects of my life, including marriage. But, I'm not there yet, so for now I listen and prepare.
-peace
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Sunday, August 21, 2011
women... part 1 of many i'm sure
As I get older and remain single I learn more about myself, what I want in a relationship, and what God wants for me in both areas along the way.
In many ways I feel I've thrown off the desires to hastily get into any relationship that presents itself just because I long to be in one, but also look for the opportunity to be a man, step up to the plate, and make something happen when it is presented. This is a fine line that I find very difficult to navigate (making and letting things happen).
One realization I have come to throughout my journeys in knowing and pursuing women is the fact that my "list" of "needs" (that being things and qualities a woman must have for me to consider her a viable option) gets shorter and shorter over time. When I was in college my list consisted of things so specific, I would have only been able to date a female version of myself. No one could live up to the criteria. As of late, while my list has not gotten down to just one or two simple, and of course Godly, things, it is much more manageable.
Ultimately I would love to have someone to come along side of me in every aspect of life; ministry, social outings, random life adventures, and the like whom stands for the same things I do (making Christ's name known, loving others, and enjoying time on this green planet while we have it). I find all the minor details I used to get worked up over insignificant. Do I still long deep within me to marry a woman that loves college football as much as me? Yes, of course. Is that the, or even a, determining factor that makes or breaks a girl for me? No...not any more (it used to be).
I may never find a girl that loves all the same music that I do, shares my affection for all things bacon, or even knows how football "works".
As it says in Proverbs 31:1a
"A wife of noble character, who can find?"
Well I sure haven't found her, but I sure as heck am looking.
In the end God has a plan for my future in this area of life we call "love" and even though it may not look as storybook as I'd like it to, I'm fine with that because He knows these things a lot better than I do. He did create the whole thing after all.
-peace
In many ways I feel I've thrown off the desires to hastily get into any relationship that presents itself just because I long to be in one, but also look for the opportunity to be a man, step up to the plate, and make something happen when it is presented. This is a fine line that I find very difficult to navigate (making and letting things happen).
One realization I have come to throughout my journeys in knowing and pursuing women is the fact that my "list" of "needs" (that being things and qualities a woman must have for me to consider her a viable option) gets shorter and shorter over time. When I was in college my list consisted of things so specific, I would have only been able to date a female version of myself. No one could live up to the criteria. As of late, while my list has not gotten down to just one or two simple, and of course Godly, things, it is much more manageable.
Ultimately I would love to have someone to come along side of me in every aspect of life; ministry, social outings, random life adventures, and the like whom stands for the same things I do (making Christ's name known, loving others, and enjoying time on this green planet while we have it). I find all the minor details I used to get worked up over insignificant. Do I still long deep within me to marry a woman that loves college football as much as me? Yes, of course. Is that the, or even a, determining factor that makes or breaks a girl for me? No...not any more (it used to be).
I may never find a girl that loves all the same music that I do, shares my affection for all things bacon, or even knows how football "works".
As it says in Proverbs 31:1a
"A wife of noble character, who can find?"
Well I sure haven't found her, but I sure as heck am looking.
In the end God has a plan for my future in this area of life we call "love" and even though it may not look as storybook as I'd like it to, I'm fine with that because He knows these things a lot better than I do. He did create the whole thing after all.
-peace
Sunday, August 14, 2011
is my all not enough?
I'm not one of those that has a dramatic testimony as to how Christ came in and dramatically rearranged my life. I was not turned from a life of killing people, selling and doing drugs, selling my body for money, ripping poor people off, or the like. Instead, I was ten years old when I became a Christ follower. I did so not because my life was so much in shambles that He was the only place I could turn for relief. Instead, I turned to Him because I realized, the best a ten-year-old's understanding manage, that I was a sinner that could do nothing to earn Heaven on my own.
After that point though, I continued to stay on my path of being a "good kid". To this day, I have never done drugs, consumed alcohol (outside of Nyquil), had sex, or killed anyone. Yet, even with my list of "I haven'ts" I remain unworthy of His mercy. I have sacrificed many things, including relationships, countless physical pleasures, material possessions, and a career that would pay decent, all for Him. With this, it would seem that I'd have a right to proclaim that I have earned some sort of extra favor with God. I'm a minister for goodness sake after all. Yet, even with all that I have done it remains a feeble effort at best compared to God's perfection.
"We all become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment."
Isaiah 64:6
We, as humans, have a condition of sin that makes living up to God's standard impossible on our own merit. We are not sinners because we sin, we are sin because we are sinners. While this is bad news at first glance, a closer look reveals something marvelous: while we are sinners by birth and condition and we continue to offer nothing but filthy rags at the feet of God on our best days of being righteous, because He is so Holy and Good, His Grace and Mercy abound so much that He is able to sustain us and do His work through us. That is good news my friends.
So, even though I fail miserably and often and on my best day of doing good I still am not able to earn any good things from God, He continues to shower me with blessings and strength...because HE LOVES ME. (and you just as much)
Selah that
-peace
After that point though, I continued to stay on my path of being a "good kid". To this day, I have never done drugs, consumed alcohol (outside of Nyquil), had sex, or killed anyone. Yet, even with my list of "I haven'ts" I remain unworthy of His mercy. I have sacrificed many things, including relationships, countless physical pleasures, material possessions, and a career that would pay decent, all for Him. With this, it would seem that I'd have a right to proclaim that I have earned some sort of extra favor with God. I'm a minister for goodness sake after all. Yet, even with all that I have done it remains a feeble effort at best compared to God's perfection.
"We all become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment."
Isaiah 64:6
We, as humans, have a condition of sin that makes living up to God's standard impossible on our own merit. We are not sinners because we sin, we are sin because we are sinners. While this is bad news at first glance, a closer look reveals something marvelous: while we are sinners by birth and condition and we continue to offer nothing but filthy rags at the feet of God on our best days of being righteous, because He is so Holy and Good, His Grace and Mercy abound so much that He is able to sustain us and do His work through us. That is good news my friends.
So, even though I fail miserably and often and on my best day of doing good I still am not able to earn any good things from God, He continues to shower me with blessings and strength...because HE LOVES ME. (and you just as much)
Selah that
-peace
Friday, July 22, 2011
open minded
I was having a discussion via someone's facebook post the other day and something came to mind that I fins to be a growing trend in society. There are a lot of people that claim to be very "open minded" but remain some of the most close minded people I know of.
Here's what I mean:
The discussion started as a talk about Texas' super conservative school boards forcing certain teachings down students' throats, which I'm against, but then turned toward science versus religion in a way. I'll be the first to admit that science and any argument against it is not my speciality or something I'm all that interested in to be honest. Yet, I kept find myself going back to this conversation because something stuck out to me in this individual that I see a lot in other areas of life. Many people claim to have an open minded perspective but are, in fact, closed off from thought outside of what they're comfortable with.
Take politics for example.
(Again, this is not my area of expertise and I often care very little for it other than voting in an informed manner - there is too much drama that me arguing about is not going to change)
Often I see "liberals" talk about how "conservatives" are close minded about minorities, the poor, the environment, and spending. In reality though, many times these are sweeping generalities and uninformed at that. I see many "liberals" not open to the idea of more than one solution to problems or ways of learning. The same could be said about "conservatives" thinking "liberals" are closed off to the ideas of religion and its place in government and schools, when, in reality, there are far more options than they consider or discuss.
At any rate, I feel that we've gotten to a place as society where any idea that isn't yours is shot down immediately as being close minded. That, in and of itself, is the actual definition of being close minded. It's really a shame that things are this way in government, public policy, and even within friendships.
We should all strive to have a truly open mind for whatever or whomever comes before us.
A couple things to keep in mind:
I do believe in absolute truth and don't budge on it, as prescribed by Scripture, so don't think I'm some "let's all get along and accept everything and everyone's ideas". I know some of you have already judged me as such. Don't do it. You're being close minded.
Christians: Truth fears no question. Just because you allow yourself to consider outside possibilities to questions you have or hear does not mean God is scared or changed. He is truth and He is right. Fear not. An open mind is not the Devil's work. If anything, it is God revealing himself to be what He is.
-peace
Here's what I mean:
The discussion started as a talk about Texas' super conservative school boards forcing certain teachings down students' throats, which I'm against, but then turned toward science versus religion in a way. I'll be the first to admit that science and any argument against it is not my speciality or something I'm all that interested in to be honest. Yet, I kept find myself going back to this conversation because something stuck out to me in this individual that I see a lot in other areas of life. Many people claim to have an open minded perspective but are, in fact, closed off from thought outside of what they're comfortable with.
Take politics for example.
(Again, this is not my area of expertise and I often care very little for it other than voting in an informed manner - there is too much drama that me arguing about is not going to change)
Often I see "liberals" talk about how "conservatives" are close minded about minorities, the poor, the environment, and spending. In reality though, many times these are sweeping generalities and uninformed at that. I see many "liberals" not open to the idea of more than one solution to problems or ways of learning. The same could be said about "conservatives" thinking "liberals" are closed off to the ideas of religion and its place in government and schools, when, in reality, there are far more options than they consider or discuss.
At any rate, I feel that we've gotten to a place as society where any idea that isn't yours is shot down immediately as being close minded. That, in and of itself, is the actual definition of being close minded. It's really a shame that things are this way in government, public policy, and even within friendships.
We should all strive to have a truly open mind for whatever or whomever comes before us.
A couple things to keep in mind:
I do believe in absolute truth and don't budge on it, as prescribed by Scripture, so don't think I'm some "let's all get along and accept everything and everyone's ideas". I know some of you have already judged me as such. Don't do it. You're being close minded.
Christians: Truth fears no question. Just because you allow yourself to consider outside possibilities to questions you have or hear does not mean God is scared or changed. He is truth and He is right. Fear not. An open mind is not the Devil's work. If anything, it is God revealing himself to be what He is.
-peace
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
unique generation
I was born in a time unlike any other in history.
You might ask yourself, "What was so special about the fall of 1983?"
This was a time when Reaganomics was just getting started, Michael Jackson was becoming a solo pop star, and the internet was still something that "the government had created" in comic books. The times have changed, as happens often. Yet, not since perhaps WWI when soldiers saw planes in combat has a generation seen such a dramatic change that would alter the future so drastically.
Before you write me off as the typical "back in my day" sorta thing, let me explain more in-depth.
Before those born circa '83 people grew up on typewriters and were introduced to the computer keyboard in adulthood for example. Same goes for many things that are commonplace now for children to grow up on such major advances while their parents were introduced to them in adulthood: the internet, cellphones, CD's, mp3's, and the list goes on.
I remember very distinctly being labeled as "guinea pigs" by a teacher for a brand new idea being implemented into the junior high curriculum; "computer class". It was a class made up of a room full of computers (each monitor taking up the area of a desk) with black screens where we'd type simple functions in yellowish type. Two years later I was a part of the last class to take keyboarding class on these computers. The following year, we had screens with color and (limited) access to the world wide web. Growing up we could buy records on vinyl (not because it was cool or ironic, but because it was the only way to buy an album) until cassettes came out and then replaced by CD's ultimately. The security device back then was putting tapes in a plastic holster at least 6 times the size of the cassette.
It is not the amount of things that changed or what they were (as long as there are vintage collectors, there will be vinyl and CD's around in someone's collection of antiques), instead it is the manner in which things changed and never looked back. If you look back upon other times when things happened, they tend to be more slowly progressed and don't alter the future in such a dynamic way.
The rate at which online life (relationships, commerce, and news) is growing and will continue to grow, you can't help but see the dramatic and world-altertering change that I've been able to see in my short lifetime already.
It will be fun to blabber on, when I'm old, about how "back in my day" we didn't have this or that. When a gallon of gas was under a dollar, when you went to the store to buy everything, when people knew what a floppy disk was, and when the internet was new.
It's very fun to be in the segment of the population stuck between Generation X, with their angst and over-reaction to their parents' causes and Generation Y, with their vast knowledge of technology and spoiled childhoods in which discipline was absent.
Is it frustrating being such a unique population? At time, yes. Sometimes I feel that I don't relate to the true Gen Xer's because I'm too young, but definitely don't relate to the Gen Yer's because they like terrible music and don't appreciate a time when MTV played music. But, what a unique opportunity to be on the cusp of the front end of monumental times that have been, and will be, like no other.
-peace
You might ask yourself, "What was so special about the fall of 1983?"
This was a time when Reaganomics was just getting started, Michael Jackson was becoming a solo pop star, and the internet was still something that "the government had created" in comic books. The times have changed, as happens often. Yet, not since perhaps WWI when soldiers saw planes in combat has a generation seen such a dramatic change that would alter the future so drastically.
Before you write me off as the typical "back in my day" sorta thing, let me explain more in-depth.
Before those born circa '83 people grew up on typewriters and were introduced to the computer keyboard in adulthood for example. Same goes for many things that are commonplace now for children to grow up on such major advances while their parents were introduced to them in adulthood: the internet, cellphones, CD's, mp3's, and the list goes on.
I remember very distinctly being labeled as "guinea pigs" by a teacher for a brand new idea being implemented into the junior high curriculum; "computer class". It was a class made up of a room full of computers (each monitor taking up the area of a desk) with black screens where we'd type simple functions in yellowish type. Two years later I was a part of the last class to take keyboarding class on these computers. The following year, we had screens with color and (limited) access to the world wide web. Growing up we could buy records on vinyl (not because it was cool or ironic, but because it was the only way to buy an album) until cassettes came out and then replaced by CD's ultimately. The security device back then was putting tapes in a plastic holster at least 6 times the size of the cassette.
It is not the amount of things that changed or what they were (as long as there are vintage collectors, there will be vinyl and CD's around in someone's collection of antiques), instead it is the manner in which things changed and never looked back. If you look back upon other times when things happened, they tend to be more slowly progressed and don't alter the future in such a dynamic way.
The rate at which online life (relationships, commerce, and news) is growing and will continue to grow, you can't help but see the dramatic and world-altertering change that I've been able to see in my short lifetime already.
It will be fun to blabber on, when I'm old, about how "back in my day" we didn't have this or that. When a gallon of gas was under a dollar, when you went to the store to buy everything, when people knew what a floppy disk was, and when the internet was new.
It's very fun to be in the segment of the population stuck between Generation X, with their angst and over-reaction to their parents' causes and Generation Y, with their vast knowledge of technology and spoiled childhoods in which discipline was absent.
Is it frustrating being such a unique population? At time, yes. Sometimes I feel that I don't relate to the true Gen Xer's because I'm too young, but definitely don't relate to the Gen Yer's because they like terrible music and don't appreciate a time when MTV played music. But, what a unique opportunity to be on the cusp of the front end of monumental times that have been, and will be, like no other.
-peace
Thursday, June 30, 2011
hero
Growing up male offers many luxuries when it comes to heroes.
I can remember plenty of adventures in the backyard, on the school playground, and as I rode my bike through the streets of our neighborhood imagining I was one of the several heroes I looked up to. Whether it was wanting to have all the gadgets and cool car like Batman, the claws and healing powers of Wolverine, or super strength like my dad seemed to have. If it made me run faster, jump higher, and somehow get the girl-I wanted it.
This love of the hero never decreased as I grew up. You would imagine that once a man reached a certain age, the time of longing to have infinite strength, fly around from place to place, or have a cave full of gadgets would dissipate. To the contrary, this longing does the opposite-it intensifies. The desire to be the hero only transforms over time. Instead of wanting to be a the character seen in the latest comic book, men turn to characters in history-based movies. (I use the term "history-based" loosely) Men like Leonidas, the Spartan king, Jeremiah Johnson, the manly outdoorsman, or almost everyone's favorite William Wallace, the warrior poet who helped free Scotland.
All these men and characters ignite in us a desire to be and do something greater than ourselves. It is something that is near to the heart of every man. Yet, as I think of all these characters, all of whom I'd still love to emulate in some way, I can't help but think that my longing are off as to who to be like. As I think of Jesus, as a man, I can't help but think; "What better hero to strive to be like?".
We often have this misconception that Jesus was this meager and frail man that never raised His voice above a whisper and wouldn't be caught dead making the most of life. Instead, we see a man that was in amongst the people of His day where he ate, drank, partied, and loved them where they were. He addressed need, sought justice, loved, and even raised His voice, and a little cain with it. Heck, I'd be willing to bet, if He had bothered He could have gotten the girl. (keep in mind He was not married, nor did He father children or bother with any of that despite what Tom Hanks says in any movie where he has creepy sort-long hair) He exemplifies all the characteristics of what a man should be. He was a dynamic leader, He gave of Himself sacrificially in all He did, and acted out of nothing but love and glory for God.
In the end, that's the hero I want to be like.
Chances are I'll never lead an army to victory in a great battle that will be remembered throughout history, I may not give an inspirational speech that will inspire generations after me, I may not get the girl, and, despite my dreams at night, I may never get the chance to lead the resistance against the zombie and/or machine apocalypse. Despite this, my ultimate desire is to be the ultimate man and hero in living as Christ lived. Because when it all is said and done, what better path to follow than that of the man that saved the day, once and for all.
-peace
I can remember plenty of adventures in the backyard, on the school playground, and as I rode my bike through the streets of our neighborhood imagining I was one of the several heroes I looked up to. Whether it was wanting to have all the gadgets and cool car like Batman, the claws and healing powers of Wolverine, or super strength like my dad seemed to have. If it made me run faster, jump higher, and somehow get the girl-I wanted it.
This love of the hero never decreased as I grew up. You would imagine that once a man reached a certain age, the time of longing to have infinite strength, fly around from place to place, or have a cave full of gadgets would dissipate. To the contrary, this longing does the opposite-it intensifies. The desire to be the hero only transforms over time. Instead of wanting to be a the character seen in the latest comic book, men turn to characters in history-based movies. (I use the term "history-based" loosely) Men like Leonidas, the Spartan king, Jeremiah Johnson, the manly outdoorsman, or almost everyone's favorite William Wallace, the warrior poet who helped free Scotland.
All these men and characters ignite in us a desire to be and do something greater than ourselves. It is something that is near to the heart of every man. Yet, as I think of all these characters, all of whom I'd still love to emulate in some way, I can't help but think that my longing are off as to who to be like. As I think of Jesus, as a man, I can't help but think; "What better hero to strive to be like?".
We often have this misconception that Jesus was this meager and frail man that never raised His voice above a whisper and wouldn't be caught dead making the most of life. Instead, we see a man that was in amongst the people of His day where he ate, drank, partied, and loved them where they were. He addressed need, sought justice, loved, and even raised His voice, and a little cain with it. Heck, I'd be willing to bet, if He had bothered He could have gotten the girl. (keep in mind He was not married, nor did He father children or bother with any of that despite what Tom Hanks says in any movie where he has creepy sort-long hair) He exemplifies all the characteristics of what a man should be. He was a dynamic leader, He gave of Himself sacrificially in all He did, and acted out of nothing but love and glory for God.
In the end, that's the hero I want to be like.
Chances are I'll never lead an army to victory in a great battle that will be remembered throughout history, I may not give an inspirational speech that will inspire generations after me, I may not get the girl, and, despite my dreams at night, I may never get the chance to lead the resistance against the zombie and/or machine apocalypse. Despite this, my ultimate desire is to be the ultimate man and hero in living as Christ lived. Because when it all is said and done, what better path to follow than that of the man that saved the day, once and for all.
-peace
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
the reason i don't support gay marriage
As a Christ-follower I am called to love everyone.
Because of this, I try to love everyone.
I'd say I try to love everyone equally, but that's not entirely true. Because many people are jerks and have opinions that are in complete opposition to mine I have to try to love them more. It is very easy to love those that are easily loveable, but not those that I don't like. That's tough.
With that being said, I try to love all gay people. Again, I say try because some of them are jerks and some aren't. The reason I aim to love them is because Christ loves them and desperately longs to be in a relationship with them. Some would say this is wrong because they are in complete opposition to Him in their deliberate sin. Yet, if this were true, we'd all be screwed because we are all unloveable with that criteria.
Instead, Jesus loves us despite our sin (which we all have enough of even if it's not things we consider "major"). The fact of the matter is any sin, yes just one, warrants seperation from God. It doesn't matter if that sin is acceptable to the current government, society as a whole, or your grandma. If it falls short of God's perfection, it seperates you from Him. So, being gay is no different than lying to your boss about what time you got in this morning when you were running late.
In the case of gay marriage I have one major beef. While I love my country and feel I've been called to obey its laws (within the bounds of not going against God's will to glorify Him) I can't support a cause and idea that promotes going in direct contradiction to God's righteousness. God sees homosexuality as a sin, thus I cannot support it as a lifestyle or law.
Let me be very clear though. I also don't support any law that allows the wealthy to abuse power and take from the poor. I don't support any law or idea that promotes children not being fed well or one that promotes heterosexual sin (such as prostotution, etc). My beef isn't with gay marriage because it involves homosexuals. My beef is with the support of something that goes against God.
While I won't support any law or idea that promotes sin, I do aim to love those that are in the sin that the law or idea promotes.
I love gay people.
I love gay people and want them to come to Christ and live abundandly in Him as much as I want the banker who's job it is to cheat people out of money every day. I love gay people as much as I love the government official who takes advantage of his status for his personal gain. I love gay people as much as I love the guy that looks me straight in the face and lies to me about something petty. I love gay people as much as I love my own mother (and I do love her-see this post). In all these cases I am called to love people that are sinners, who have fallen short of God's perfection. They each need Christ's forgiveness, I am called to aid in them better realizing that.
Does it irritate me that this particular issue is based on a group that maintains their identity based on their sin? Yes. But this is no excuse to love them any less. We do not have to love what any sinner does in their sinnfulness. Instead, we should strive to love everyone as Christ loved us because while we were still sinners He died for us. He didn't wait until we were squeeky clean and had everything figured out. He came down and grab us in the midst of our mess and filth and loved us anyway.
When it comes down to it, this is not a civil rights issue or one about justice for everyone. Instead, it is a much deeper moral issue that points to us as a nation and people pointed down a path that continues to open the door to more and more loose judgement in light of God's Word. While I don't think that we should be a nation that forces Christian beliefs on everyone, I do know, as history has shown, that nations and people that consciously live in opposition to God don't fair too well. I don't want to see that in my generation or future generations. This is something that goes above and beyond simply being a civil rights or government issue. Instead it is an issue of how history and ultimately God will look upon us in light of God's standards.
Again, I love gay people (at least try to) but cannot support anything that opposes God's Word and will.
-peace
Because of this, I try to love everyone.
I'd say I try to love everyone equally, but that's not entirely true. Because many people are jerks and have opinions that are in complete opposition to mine I have to try to love them more. It is very easy to love those that are easily loveable, but not those that I don't like. That's tough.
With that being said, I try to love all gay people. Again, I say try because some of them are jerks and some aren't. The reason I aim to love them is because Christ loves them and desperately longs to be in a relationship with them. Some would say this is wrong because they are in complete opposition to Him in their deliberate sin. Yet, if this were true, we'd all be screwed because we are all unloveable with that criteria.
Instead, Jesus loves us despite our sin (which we all have enough of even if it's not things we consider "major"). The fact of the matter is any sin, yes just one, warrants seperation from God. It doesn't matter if that sin is acceptable to the current government, society as a whole, or your grandma. If it falls short of God's perfection, it seperates you from Him. So, being gay is no different than lying to your boss about what time you got in this morning when you were running late.
In the case of gay marriage I have one major beef. While I love my country and feel I've been called to obey its laws (within the bounds of not going against God's will to glorify Him) I can't support a cause and idea that promotes going in direct contradiction to God's righteousness. God sees homosexuality as a sin, thus I cannot support it as a lifestyle or law.
Let me be very clear though. I also don't support any law that allows the wealthy to abuse power and take from the poor. I don't support any law or idea that promotes children not being fed well or one that promotes heterosexual sin (such as prostotution, etc). My beef isn't with gay marriage because it involves homosexuals. My beef is with the support of something that goes against God.
While I won't support any law or idea that promotes sin, I do aim to love those that are in the sin that the law or idea promotes.
I love gay people.
I love gay people and want them to come to Christ and live abundandly in Him as much as I want the banker who's job it is to cheat people out of money every day. I love gay people as much as I love the government official who takes advantage of his status for his personal gain. I love gay people as much as I love the guy that looks me straight in the face and lies to me about something petty. I love gay people as much as I love my own mother (and I do love her-see this post). In all these cases I am called to love people that are sinners, who have fallen short of God's perfection. They each need Christ's forgiveness, I am called to aid in them better realizing that.
Does it irritate me that this particular issue is based on a group that maintains their identity based on their sin? Yes. But this is no excuse to love them any less. We do not have to love what any sinner does in their sinnfulness. Instead, we should strive to love everyone as Christ loved us because while we were still sinners He died for us. He didn't wait until we were squeeky clean and had everything figured out. He came down and grab us in the midst of our mess and filth and loved us anyway.
When it comes down to it, this is not a civil rights issue or one about justice for everyone. Instead, it is a much deeper moral issue that points to us as a nation and people pointed down a path that continues to open the door to more and more loose judgement in light of God's Word. While I don't think that we should be a nation that forces Christian beliefs on everyone, I do know, as history has shown, that nations and people that consciously live in opposition to God don't fair too well. I don't want to see that in my generation or future generations. This is something that goes above and beyond simply being a civil rights or government issue. Instead it is an issue of how history and ultimately God will look upon us in light of God's standards.
Again, I love gay people (at least try to) but cannot support anything that opposes God's Word and will.
-peace
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